Some People

Observing people is always being a good study within itself. Day in day out, we come across many people from different backgrounds, cultures, education and experiences. You find some of them interesting and some are equally annoying. Some gives you life long good memories while some teach you through a bad experience being with them.

I observed, people have different agendas to behave with you and other people. Although it is all about how they are grown up and taught about, their behavior is just that unique one.

Some people you never like but have to carry with you. These are in your life for no reason but are burdened on you by some rules of society or so. You dislike them at highs. Even you hate them. But you can't get rid of them by any means. You can't figure out how to deal with these people and so you just ignore them or avoid them. Above all, whenever encounters, you always try to be nice with them just due to some social pressure or for your certain interest.

There are some people having strictly business agenda with you. They are just the perfect example of 'give and take'. They have nothing to do with you. They don't even bother who are you and where you came from? They are pretty neutral. They do not like to intervene in others and others in them. They behave like 'none of your business' in both way.

Some people are just demanding all the time and it's being really hard to fulfill them every time. Some are good with you till they get their work from you. Further, some are good at a time when you are useful for them while as bad as that when you are just kind of useless and nothing but a burden on them.

Some people are there just to create problems and make troubles in your life. Some even enjoys putting you in misery. Ruining your life seems their lifelong agenda. Some shows themselves very important and superior than anyone else. Some insults you purposefully. Some doubts you as if you are a terrorist. And even some makes you feel like you are a beggar at their doorstep.

Somehow, there are few good people do exist whom you could say, 'nice to meet you'. They meet you from nowhere but solve your problem. They just help you selflessly. They expect nothing from you in return. They just wish, you get something better from them. You remember these people for what they were with you. Just through their behavior, these people teaches how to behave with others in a way better than you are being now. These wise people are the gems of the society.

Lastly, you meet with very few people with whom you share some bond. Those are rare pieces. You enjoy their company and keep contact with them. You build a friendship with them. All of a sudden, they come in your life and stay with you forever.

Then comes the rarest of the rare people, meeting with whom turns up into a strong bond like never before. These people turns your life. These people are gift in themselves and spread joy with you whenever you interact with them. These unburden you from unnecessary things and load you with all of the happiness. They get you on a very different level where you would never even think of to be on yourself. You are always finding a chance to spend time with them whenever possible. When they are not with you, you truly miss them.

The jewel pieces of this world are just royal ones. These are not people but 'persons' for you - sometime 'the person'. You not only share relationship but share each others life. When you miss this person, you feel your life is incomplete. You wish to spend your entire life with him / her doing nothing but just sitting aside and that is too much within itself. Not necessarily but most of the time, he / she is your life partner and that's why is being said as 'better half'.

In my experience, I never met a person who made me feel like am meeting someone else. All of them are distinct and unique. While reading this, you might have remembered many of encounters with those many people in your life. If they are bad at you, forgive them. If they are good at you, make them remember you as well.

- miPratik