miPratik

Observing people is always being a good study within itself. Day in day out, we come across many people from different backgrounds, cultures, education and experiences. You find some of them interesting and some are equally annoying. Some gives you life long good memories while some teach you through a bad experience being with them. I observed, people have different agendas to behave with you and other people. Although it is all about how they are grown up and taught about, their behavior is just that unique one. Some people you never like but have to carry with you. These are in your life for no reason but are burdened on you by some rules of society or so. You dislike them at highs. Even you hate them. But you can't get rid of them by any means. You can't figure out how to deal with these people and so you just ignore them or avoid them. Above all, whenever encounters, you always try to be nice with them just due to some social pressure or for your certai...

I want to grow high; I want to go higher and higher. On the way, I might make some mistakes; because, I am not a perfect man and I accept the fact. At such point of time, I need you to showcase my mistakes to me. That is helpful to keep myself on track to reach to my target faster. I appreciate your efforts to point out where am going wrong. Without you, I might not realize that I am distracted and would continue to go on some longer route. Though I realize lately, that would be at the cost of time passed by. By some means, be my fellow in my journey. Because, I not only ‘want’ you but I ‘need’ you in my life. - miPratik (pre-posted in LinkedIn post)

‘Advising’ and ‘seeking an advice’, both requires particular skill set. Today’s topic discusses on this as ‘an advice to give advice and take advice’: It is important, from whom should we seek an advice? how? at what time and how long? and importantly, why? It is equally important to whom are we advising? about what? how? when? and very importantly, why? The right combinations of these answers is of highest important for one to lead the life on a right track; because, You are just one step away from taking a decision to change your entire life. If you are in the role of seeking an advice.. 1.      Do not be so dependent on others every time, do your homework first. 2.      If there is some scope to try first on your own, do so. Sometimes, problems solves before asking them. 3.      Before taking someone’s time, brief the person about your need. 4.      Ask him/her if he is the right person on th...

“What the hell is this going on?” “When I will be out of this situation?” “Despite of really hard work, I had bad appraisal this year.” “I just want to leave this company.” Whenever I pass by the tapri (shed cum hotel in India) just outside of my company premise, I am used to hear these sentences day in day out. People go there to have a tea, snacks, etc. (in short, hi-tea) with their friends, colleagues and they usually have discussions as such. Though there are other topics I used to hear but they are unlikely to happen. I have a keen observation that people used to come there just to discuss their frustration. What more it include is their personal problems, family problems, financial problems, relation issues. Even for that sake, I heard about national problems, international issues as well. After finishing their ‘work’ at tapri, what happens? People went back to their ‘life’ and comes back next day to discuss some other problems. The most benefited...